Darrell Eugene Findlay
January 9, 1962 – November 16, 2025
Darrell “Skip” Eugene Findlay, 63, of Rochester, Minnesota, formerly of Rochester, New York, passed away peacefully at home on November 16, 2025 surrounded by the love of his family and friend.
Born January 9, 1962 in Willoughby, Ohio, Darrell was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend. He is survived by his loving wife, Mia Findlay; daughters Christina and Bethany, and son-in-law Chris; and his cherished grandchildren Hailey, Emerson, and Alyssa, who brought immense joy to his life. He is also survived by his sister Diana Miller and her husband Nick; nieces; and his nephew Anthony Miller and his wife Amanda, along with great-nephew Tanner Miller. Brother-in-law Bon Larson-Silva and his wife Wendy, and niece Elizabeth Chavez.
Darrell was preceded in death by his parents, Beverley and Jim Lodge, and his brother Dennis Findlay.
Darrell loved his family deeply and lived his life with quiet integrity, kindness, and unwavering loyalty. He believed in helping his neighbors, lending a hand without hesitation, and upholding genuinely high moral standards. His friendships were lifelong and treasured, especially with Chip Domanick, John Canton, Nicole DiSanto, and Chuck Norris.
A highly respected colleague, Darrell dedicated 34 years to Johnson & Johnson and Ortho Clinical Diagnostics where his work ethic, reliability, and warmth earned the admiration of everyone around him. He retired in 2022, embracing more time with the people and the simple joys he loved most.
Darrell enjoyed watching Jeopardy, playing cards, listening to music, and caring for his home and lawn, which he took great pride in. He loved traveling in his RV; always eager for the next road ahead, driving, fishing, bowling, a good steak, and cheering for Ohio State and the Buffalo Bills. These small pleasures reflected the heart of who he was: steady, joyful, thoughtful, and deeply devoted.
He was a great man, a loyal friend, and a gentle, loving presence in the lives of all who knew him.
Per his wishes, there will be no services.
Skip and I reconnected after so many years apart. I was so looking forward to spending the rest of our lives together again. You brought such a joy to me the last couple of years. You brought so much light into my life after my wife passed away. You will be so sorely missed by all who knew you. I love you and I will never ever forget you.
Darrell was not only an uncle to me, but he was also like a father. He was the most caring person anyone could ask for and the best uncle on earth. Words can’t express how much he meant to me; “Tio” you will be missed more than words can express; God looked around his garden and found an empty space, God’s Garden must be beautiful as he has taken a special Angel, he only takes the best. I love you so much, Tio!
“If Roses Grow in Heaven”
If roses grow in Heaven Lord, please pick a bunch for me. Place them in my uncle’s arms and tell him they’re from me. Tell him that I love him and miss him so much, and when he turns to smile, place a kiss upon his cheek and hold him for a while because remembering him is easy, I do it every day, but there’s an ache within my heart that will never go away.
Darrell was a wonderful neighbor and a terrific friend! I loved spending time over at his house just talking with Maryellen and him and playing with the fur babies. When they left to go on the road trip I was very sad I knew I would miss them. Darrell was such a strong man and he fought so hard and I am so proud of him. He brought so much joy to so many people I don’t even think he realized it! He will forever be etched in my heart and he will be missed by so many! Maryellen I’m sending so much love to you, I know this is not an easy time for you, but just know that he is with God and has no more pain.
May God bring you comfort and peace in the days ahead and I’m always here for you!